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From experience I know you must be 16 years old at least to work there.
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You must be at least 18 years of age to work at any Victoria's Secrets stores, including locations in.
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You have to be at least 16 yrs old and some places 19 yrs. old. Call to place an application.
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As long as you have the proper work permits (if you are under 18), you can probably work there if you.
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as old as you need to be to get a job(: duhh.
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Since Factor Women is in Atlanta, Georgia I was curious to see if they still send their girls in for Victorias Secret in New York City. I know Elite Models work very close with Victorias Secret, but Elite got shut down in Altanta and now Factor has taken.
Elite didn't actually get shut down - Factor Women is run by Jane Stewart who is the same person that.
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has anyone used the victorias secret very volluptuos lip plumper? does it work? did it really make ur lips appear plumper?
Yes. I have it and my lips are very plumpier. Haha. (: PLEASE ANSWER MY NEWEST QUESTION IF YOU COULD.
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how much do you get paid at victoria's secret
That’s right, you read that title correctly, I generally get all of my underwear for free at Victoria’s Secret! If you join Victoria’s Secret’s Mailing lists and e-mail lists they will send you coupons for free pairs of underwear no purchase necessary (like the ones in the picture above) and they send them out fairly frequently.
A couple of years ago I lived behind an outside shopping mall that had a Victoria’s Secret Store and I developed a system. I signed up for all of the Victoria’s Secret Mailing Lists and would collect all of the coupons I could for free underwear and other items. When I received a coupon for free underwear (no purchase necessary) I would go and pick it up. You won’t pay a cent and they are really nice about it. This was easier to do when I lived behind one of their stores but I still live close enough to our mall that I’m usually able to swing by the store to get my free items before the coupons expire. I do have a Victoria Secret Credit Card which will earn you more free offers but that isn’t necessary to get free stuff. I have also received free gift cards (like the one in the picture above), free perfume, and free $10 at the store. Their underwear really is high quality and lasts a long time.
I often think that frugal living is about figuring out how to get the things you need or want for free and this is a great and easy way to do that if you live near a Victoria’s Secret Store. You can also do this with their other store Bath & Body Works to get free candles, lotions, and hand sanitizers. Remember that this is a marketing strategy designed to get you into their stores in the hopes that you will pick up your free item and also buy something but it isn’t required. I do occasionally buy stuff from their stores when I find great deals.
If you follow the links below and sign up for their mailing lists you will start receiving communication from them about sales and events and also FREE items. Note- I do get a certain amount of e-mail and snail mail from them that doesn’t contain free offers but I find it worth sorting through.
Click HERE to join Victoria’s Secret Store Offers And Events E-mail List
Click HERE to join Victoria’s Secret Mailing List
Note- The information provided is meant to be helpful. These aren’t affiliate links, I am in no way affiliated with Victoria’s Secret and receive no compensation for mentioning them
You can check out my Victoria’s Secret category HERE were I only post about deals from them. Check back often to see when I receive Free Victoria’s Secret coupons.
I also post when I receive free coupons in the mail and e-mail as well as other things I get for free in my Free In The Mail category and you can find the link HERE.
The Scariest Thing about Being a Man Applying for a Job at Victoria’s Secret
All I could think about was running.
Looking across the desk at my boss, Jamie, I listened as he asked the question I’d been fearing for more two months.
“WHY DO YOU WANT TO SELL WOMEN’S UNDERWEAR?”
He glared at me, and I shifted my weight, trying to figure out what to say.
I hadn’t expected this to happen when I walked into his office that morning. As a fitness assistant at my university’s student life center, I’d been on my way to drop off some gym visitation statistics in his mailbox. He usually didn’t come in that early, and if he did, it was almost impossible for him to know anything about my applying for a job at Victoria’s Secret. How could he? I had barely told anyone about it. Just my roommate, Josh, and the hiring manager at the store, Janice—neither of whom had direct contact with people who could disown me.
Unless, I thought, Janice had called my references.
Like any good company, Victoria’s Secret had warned me they would do this, multiple times; and like any good idiot, I’d proceeded to ignore them. First, they mentioned it on the application, specifically asking for references from two supervisors and one peer. They then made it painstakingly clear that they would not only contact these people, but possibly a slew of others–including “family members, business associates, financial sources, friends, neighbors, and others with whom I am associated”–in order to get a clear picture of my character. (Unless I lived in the states of Maryland or Connecticut, they could have also required me to take a polygraph test.)
And still, I sat at the dining room table of my townhouse, reading it over and thinking, Nah, they won’t actually call those people.
Even during the job interview, as I listened to the hiring manager say something along the lines of, “So, next step, we’re going to call those people,” I only nodded my head, thinking, Oh come on. This is retail. You don’t get paid enough to do that.
Yet looking at Jamie, who was slowly growing more red in the face by the second, I began wondering if perhaps they do get paid enough to do that. Especially when the applicant is a grown-ish man with the tendency to wear too much cologne.
“WHY DO YOU WANT TO SELL WOMEN’S UNDERWEAR?”
The question played again in my head, and I stared at him, still trying to figure out how to respond. I knew I was going to have to answer this question at some point, but I hadn’t imagined it would come this quickly–or from someone other than my parents. In fact, I’d just resigned to hoping that it would never happen, that I could just coast peacefully along in the world of bras without anyone noticing. On the surface, I’d be the same 23-year-old Chris that everyone knew as the preppy, pre-dental student in his fifth year of undergrad. But in the shadows, in a world that I only knew, I’d be working towards something that felt a lot more like myself. Even if it was as a cashier at Victoria’s Secret.
But that was all out the window now. Jamie, by way of Janice the hiring manager, had forced my hand. And, as much as I wanted to sprint out of the room and never return, I couldn’t. If I didn’t answer Jamie now, I would have to eventually. And likely by that point, he’d have other concerned-going-on-horrified coworkers with him. As best as I could tell, I had one of three options: I could tell the truth—about the heartbreak, the rejection, and the nipple buds poking through my shirt; I could lie and say I’d done it on a dare from a friend; or, I could act completely oblivious to what he was talking about in an effort to see just how much he actually knew. If the latter was successful, there was a chance I could get out of it with him feeling like he was mistaken. And if he felt mistaken, there was a chance I could get out of it with my secret life still in place. So, hoping for the best, I went with option three.
“What do you mean, ‘Why do I want to sell women’s underwear’?”
“What do I mean?” he said. “I mean this woman called me from Victoria’s Secret the other day saying you wanted to work there.”
“Yes,” he said. “Was she serious?”
“She said I wanted to work there?”
“Your name is Chris Pilny, right?”
“Well that’s what she said. She said, ‘Hi, this is so-and-so from Victoria’s Secret in Green Hills, and I’m calling in regards to Chris Pilny.’ “
“Huh, that’s strange,” I said.
“Yeah, it IS strange,” he said, growing more impatient. But I hadn’t given up yet.
“Well,” I said. “How did she spell ‘Pilny’?”
At this, he shook his head, picking up a baseball off his desk and tossing it in the air.
“Come on, man. Why do you want to sell women’s underwear? Tell me this is a joke.”
Desperately, desperately I wanted this to be the case. If anything, I wanted to tell myself that it was a joke. That I was abandoning my future as an oral maxillofacial surgeon to sell thongs at Victoria’s Secret simply for a laugh. “Some college kids backpack Europe for a year following graduation,” I wanted to say. “But I’m headed to the mall! Ha!”
But it wasn’t a joke. It was a very serious mission, and one that I hoped would finally give me the piece of knowledge I’d always sought: How to get girls and keep them interested. You just can’t really say that to your boss when he’s glaring at you from behind his desk. Especially when he’s watched you, over the course of four years, meet all your college girlfriends while working for him, and inform the entire staff that the only transferrable skill you’ve earned from the job is “flirting with undergrads.” He would have called me on bullshit immediately.
So, realizing that option three wasn’t working, and that option one was out of the question, I resorted to option two: lie, saying I was taking the job on a dare.
Again, he shook his head.
“Yeah, but…what if you actually get the job? Would you actually work at Vickie’s?”
“I mean, I might,” I told him. “It is a recession, and it is a job. And I am an English major. I don’t know. Might as well?”
“I guess, man. Whatever. Just, uh, keep me posted about it.”
“Oh, and if you apply for a job at the Hustler store next week, don’t put me down as a reference, ok?”
“Good,” he said. “Thanks.”
“Anything else?” I asked.
“Nope. Just don’t end up in prison, OK? I don’t want to know what they’d do to you in there for sniffing panties.”
“Got it,” I said. “Won’t sniff any panties. Thanks.”
And with that, I turned around and walked out of the room, back to my post in the fitness center, and the life where everyone still knew me as the preppy, pre-dental Chris.
how much do you get paid at victoria's secret
This much I’ll admit: I love Victoria’s Secret lingerie.
And back in the day, I was an employee at the sexy retail chain, fully immersed in the world of all things bras, crotchless panties, fishnet stockings, and corny pick-up lines from male shoppers. You look like my girlfriend’s body type…can you try on this corset and show me if it fits? or ‘Your cleavage looks nice, what size are you because you look like my wife’s size?’ I wish I was making this up.
If you dove head first into this article with the hopes of receiving a fat loss program, you’re in the wrong place. And I hope I didn’t spoil the beans that you discontinue reading this post as I believe there are valuable takeaways here. Sure, I could provide the “quick fix” with a crash diet, an immense caloric deficit, a high reps-low weight “toning” routine, or a total body dehydration to #prunestatus. Don’t get me wrong, all of these would produce results, BUT. As a fitness professional, who boasts healthy, balanced living, it would be irresponsible for me to encourage such behavior.
So you made it this far into the article, which means you must be curious as to how to get a Victoria’s Secret body.
You’re eager to see what witty shit I spew out next.
Either way, I’ll tell you how. So How do you get a Victoria’s Secret body?
Answer: Put lingerie and wings on your body.
LOL. Had I typed this same question into Google, I would’ve gotten a multitude of articles that would laud stringent diets, excessive cardio, and the most recent discovery: the Ballet Beautiful program. Of course, I’d rather be stabbed in the pelvic bone by a Samurai sword than attempt to justify ballet’s effect on physique building. (Here is the link if you want a good laugh).
While I do laud women who walk down a runway covering up their private parts, the spectacle of the #VSFashionShow becomes a problem when young girls harbor negative thoughts about their bodies when looking up to the angels on TV.
Somewhere out there, there’s a girl pulling her inner thighs apart, praying for a thigh gap one day. Somewhere out there, there’s a woman resenting herself because she has cellulite. Somewhere out there, there’s a girl doing jumping jacks during the show’s commercial breaks. Somewhere out there, there’s a girl pinching her muffin top. And as result, now suffers from a severe eating disorder.
What’s even more heartbreaking is girls across the country scroll through the VS models’ Instagram accounts seeking workout and diet advice, utilizing the hashtag “#bodygoals.” And I get it. It’s easy to confuse “celebrity” with “legitimacy.” BUT. When this induces girls broadcasting on social media statuses “The VS Fashion Show: time to hit the gym hard tomorrow” or “time to eat only spinach for the next month,” that’s that shit I don’t like.
YUCK. Nobody wants that.
So now I digress.
Ladies: there are alternatives to “a Victoria’s Secret Body” that aren’t nearly as soul sucking. In fact, these will ignite motivation and breathe life into the core of your being.
I urge you to unfollow #trainlikeanangel. Sure, Adriana Lima is the trailblazer of the group as an avid boxer, but for the rest, it’s pilates, pilates, pilates, and obscure “muscle lengthening” techniques that even a surgeon can’t perform. Oh, and that Ballet Beautiful program that requires four hours a day of exercise. HAHAHAHA. FOUR HOURS? I could do five loads of laundry, get groceries across the Bay Bridge, and watch a Lord of the Rings movie in that length of time. Put simply, there are more efficient ways to build a physique: doing dead lifts, squats, lunges, push-ups, pull-ups, and tabata work. The more lean muscle we have, the more we are burning at rest. Tony Gentilcore just posted a great article on powerlifting for women here. And as for cardio, interval work with light to moderate loads will do the job. Earth shattering, right?? Here’s a sample program:
1A) Goblet Squat
2A) Single Leg Dead Lift
3A) Reverse Lunge
3C) RKC Plank Hold
Finisher: 10 Hill Sprints
2) Eat whole foods but sprinkle in treats daily.
Diets don’t have to be full of veggies, juices, or nuts that we eat ourselves into misery. Nor do they have to follow angel Adriana Lima’s 7-day juice cleanse. Yes, eating nutrient dense foods makes you feel AWESOME, and every cell of your being soaks in the energy. However. You can still indulge in treats daily to deter an all-out binge in one sitting on the weekend. Sohee Lee, my go-to gal for nutrition, ate a big ass snickers bar every day leading up to her bikini show, while maintaining a lean physique. She wrote about her positive experience with flexible dieting here. Above all, you can still splurge once in a while. It’s okay to have Donuts every Friday at the office. It’s okay to drink a whole bottle of wine (<—it’s women’s science). It’s okay to go to happy hour with your friends. Because most of the time, loaded nachos with the gals is totally worth it. And I promise, your physique won’t explode into the giant Marshmallow Man after a few social events with your squad.
3) Walk like an angel. Everywhere.
Recently, I’ve found that walking with my head up, shoulders back, and chest proud has its way of making me feel powerful. So what hell? Practice this every day – at the grocery store, at work rounding the cubicles, upon entrance at the coffee shop, even in your apartment alone. It’s time to act the part. Even better, this shit is CONTAGIOUS. By walking with your head up, you’re sending a tremendously positive message to other women to hone in on their confidence and feel empowered.
4) Don’t pay attention to mainstream media.
So you want an easy way to fall under the comparison trap? Get your hands on as many magazines as you can, watch The Real Housewives of Orange County, and check every VS models’ Instagram account upon waking up. Instead, let’s keep our eyes on our own paper, shall we? Because then, we save ourselves from toxic societal constructs that produce grandiose perceptions about reality. Escaping the fallacy is key because we can breathe. We can practice self development. We can find solace in who we are, giving ourselves our own personal definition of “Victoria’s Secret Angel.”
5) Accept that you still won’t look EXACTLY like an angel.
Now this is when I get all tough love-y on you guys. As women, no matter how hard we fight, restrict, or workout, we still may not look runway ready. And that’s totally fine. Above all, your health and inner peace are critical. If you push yourself to the limit to achieve the catwalk-esque physique, your sanity will wither away. Exercise and nutrition should align with your energy levels. Be kind to your body and nurture it in a way that elevates your zest for life.
You still with me now? Good.
The bottom line: We are all angels. Models. Fierce beings. We are worthy of self-love. We deserve to walk with pride, making the Earth rumble with our vibrance. Life is your spectacle. Your own fashion show. So start playing the part of a bombshell.
One more thing: do I have a Victoria’s Secret body? YES. At 147 pounds (looking like Jabba the Hutt compared to Adriana Lima), YET packed with muscle, a butt that could knock down the Great Wall of China, and a soul with heaps of self love, I can confidently say I am an angel in my own mind. I’m whoever I want to be. And you are too.
4 Reasons Why You Should Never Buy Victoria’s Secret Bras
I’m going to talk about Victoria’s Secret today. I bet most of you shop at VS. Around 70% of women in the U.S. shop there. Did you know they generated about $6.6 billion dollars last year? Before I worked as a bra fitter at Nordstrom I used to shop there for all of my bras while I was in college and high school because that’s where you go for bras, right? I’m here to tell you that Victoria’s Secret is actually one of the worst places to go to buy your bras. In this post I’m going to give you the four reasons why you should never buy a bra from them again.
Victoria’s Secret is known for their sexy bras and lingerie. I mean, they have a very alluring mission, marketing and advertising to make women feel sexy and feminine, and for men to buy their stuff for their girlfriends and wives.
I have no problem with feeling sexy and attractive, but I have a problem feeling sexy when I feel like I’m falling out of my bra, my underwires are digging into my breasts, and I feel uncomfortable all the time. How is that sexy?
If you flip through a VS catalog it becomes very apparent that their models don’t even wear their bras right. VS makes it clear that they care more about feeling sexy then getting a properly fitting bra. I’m a firm believer to feel sexy or attractive wearing a proper fitting bra is one of the first steps.
Let me share some of the examples of ill fitting bras I found on their site.
Here are some beautiful examples of how bras should fit.
You can tell from all of these bras that the middle part “gore” is lying flat against the middle, the cups are covering the breasts, and these bras actually fit the models! These bras look 100% more comfortable than the VS ones.
So here are some of the reasons why I would avoid buying my bras from Victoria’s Secret.
1. They don’t carry a wide range of sizes. They carry band sizes from 30-40 and cup sizes from a AA-DDD depending on the band size. This might sound a lot, but it’s not. Did you know that cup sizes go up to a KK? That means there’s 9 cup sizes missing, You’re probably thinking, who are these women who wear a J or KK? It’s very common for women to have larger cup sizes like this. I know VS don’t cater to those type of women, but I think it’s important to point out that they carry a very narrow selection of sizes.
Because VS doesn’t carry a wide range of sizes, they try to fit you into one of their bras, even if it’s not the correct bra size. This has happened to me personally and to many people I’ve helped with their bras. They kept on trying to get me to buy the sister size of 32C which is 34B, even though the band size was big on me. From my experience they don’t have their focus on trying to help women find correct fitting bras, they’re a large company trying to sell sexy bras.
Fit is the most important thing when it comes to bras, even more than what it looks like. A well fitting bra will change your life, literally. You wear your bra everyday, it’s one of the most important things you wear.
3. I don’t find the quality of their bras to be that great. They’re cheaply made and I know for a fact they don’t last that long. I remember buying a bra from them and a month later felt like it was stretched out already. The problem I have with VS is most women think that VS is the ultimate place to buy their bras and I’m here to demystify that myth that you can get a lot better quality bras that fit, that are pretty, feminine, sexy, and come in a wide range of sizes for the same price. There’s a plethora of bras I find to be much better quality than Victoria’s Secret like: Betsey Johnson, b.tempt’d by Wacoal, Calvin Klein, Chantelle, Curvy Kate, DKNY, Elle Macpherson, Elomi, Fantasie, Freya, Josie, La Perla, Le Mystere, Natori, Panache, and Wacoal are to name a few I really like.
4. This last reason is more of a personal reason. I don’t like how VS objectives women and teenage girls in an overtly sexual way. I don’t want to spend my money somewhere where they sell sex to teenagers. Read this really great article from Beauty Redefined about it, it’s really interesting.
Conclusion: I don’t like to be a Debbie Downer or negative, so I hope you don’t get that feeling from reading this post. I don’t hate VS, I more dislike them. I’m not trying to make women feel bad for shopping there, or who have smaller busts that like push up bras. I’m also not against feeling attractive and pretty in your bra. I think the prettier the bra the better!
Bras serve a purpose and function, to lift, separate, support, and shape breasts. They’re not just something to look at (I know some men might disagree with me on this). My intention is to simply educate you on what to avoid when it comes to bra shopping and give you a perspective from someone who has worked in the lingerie industry for several years.
If you have questions or concerns, I’d love to hear from you! If you made it to the end, I applaud you! Thanks!
I use to want to be able to buy a VS bra…now I DON’T! They don’t have my size and I don’t like how I feel when I go in there! Plus their prices are OUTRAGEOUS (especially for how little material they use to make their bras)!
I agree on the whole selling sex to teens. It is disgusting.
I wish I could get a fitting with you! I am sick of my bra moving up! UGH!
Sara, I offer in person and online bra consultations if you’re interested. Email me at [email protected]
This was literally the most ignorant thing I have ever read. I’m actually a full time bra specialist at VS. I am fully bra certified and am completely capable of identifying and diagnosing fit issues, as well as getting women into the right size bra. Yes we only go up to triple D’s but I will try my hardest to find a bra for them but if its just not working I will tell them in the kindest way possible we do not have their correct size and I do not want them to spend their money on something that is not functional for them. Our bras are excellent quality and will last long if properly taken care of. Im sorry an associate told you that you are a 34A, as that is a unicorn size and rarely exists. We do not sell SEX, we sell sexy, sophisticated and forever young. We make women feel confident and sexy about their bras, not like they are wearing body armor. Nothing wrong with that. Please do not let this woman discourage you from visiting a VS, we know our stuff and take pride in our passion.
I’m not in retail, but myself and every woman I know personally; family, friends, and co workers do not buy bras from VS. And yes, they are selling sex to teenagers. To be forever young, means not being an adult. Adulthood does not signify youth in any way. Being a teenager is called being young.
I’ve personally been fitted at Nordstrom, Macys, Jc Penney’s, and Frederick’s of Hollywood, and independent retailers as well and they all said the same size. VS never got it right with me. Therefore, I do not waste money on cheap material *made in China* garbage. Sorry, but the majority of people would rather buy a bra from a high end brand or Walmart, Target, than from you or your lousy company that looks like blue film ads with blue film actors.
Three cheers for real design houses and quality.
I disagree with your post. I have been using VS bra for 3 years. My first bra from VS still okay now. They have their quality. I have a small breast and always worry about my look. I find some bras are perfect for me. Sometime, human body is different. Mine is an example. Specialist from VS measured me and said my size is 32A which is true, for demi bra, A cup fit me perfectly. But with push up bra, I go with 32B. I and the specialist agree that it’s strange.
I am buying all bra for cousins, my mom, they all have great feedback for VS.
Well, They are selling sexy stuff but NOT SEX. Maybe you had bad experience or you didn’t try harder. But because of having a bad experience doesn’t mean VS is bad, or selling sex…
My VS bra has lasted years, it fits perfectly and is very comfortable. No gaps, no squeezing on-top of my breasts, just a beautiful, sexy, comfortable look.
Speaking as a shopper in the London, UK VS shopper, I have to hugely disagree with this article. I just bought a bunch of new bras there, and they’re great. I usually find it fairly awkward to get a bra that fits me in every way. The fitters were careful, considerate and took pains to check a large variety of bras and sizes with me before confirming a size and recommending what would give me the most support, and flatter me. It was a pleasant experience and I now have some new super-comfortable, well-fitting, pretty bras to add to my wardrobe. They did not measure my bra over a shirt and were very keen not to let me settle for something that seemed ‘alright’.
Perhaps the author knows a lot more about the technicalities of fitting, but I think it’s fairly ridiculous to base so much of this article on photoshopped pictures. Where was the comparison with other retailers? Do you apply this treatment to all clothing? Because the same thing happens everywhere. I judge a bra for how it feels and looks on ME. I’m certainly no model, so it’s a mistake to use those photos as any kind of example.
VS gets something right about selling bras and underwear – they make it a fun and exciting experience. I always find something I love in there, and the fitting experience was comfortable, non-embarrassing and the assistant and I were able to have a bit of a laugh whilst she ran back and forth to try me with different styles and shapes.
Don’t let this put you off VS. Be armed with a little info about how bras should properly fit (not hard with the Internet these days), maybe get fitted in a few different places, but do check out VS.
Wish there were more VS associates like you then. They don’t carry my size. (38 F) But I like shopping there for underwear, athletic wear (sans sportsbras), and other clothes. But I had an associate ask if I needed measured and when I told her ‘no thank you, VS doesn’t manufacture my size) she insisted that VS sizes were unique and asked me twice more to get sized. Before walking away to leer at me from another part of the store.
Good for you for doing your best at your job.
And VS isn’t the only store guilty of poor measurements. I’ve been mis-measured at Soma as well, and they do have a wider array of sizes.
Shop around ladies.
Great points my dear!
Kimberly Cole Zemke says
I have had so many Victoria secret bras fall apart on me, I gently hand wash them. I paid about sixty dollars for the last bra I got and two months later the WIRE is sticking through the material, this is not an isolated occurrence. I buy a lot of bras from VS but no longer, this is the third bra in a year to have the wire sticking out of it. Now either your expert fitters are fitting me incorrectly or your bras are as I suspect, shoddily made. I am about to gather up the bras and mail them back to your hack company.
I haven’t been a fan of VS for many of the same reasons you mentioned. They do try to fit you into one of their sizes, even if it isn’t the right size for you. I also agree that their bras aren’t very well made and don’t hold up over time. That being said, I do want to look sexy in my bra and wear some fun colors, etc. I recently purchased the Natori Feathers Underwire bra from Nordstrom during their anniversary sale based on your recommendation. It gets great reviews and I’ve been impressed so far!
Erica, I’m so glad to hear you like that bra. It’s one of my favorites and it’s really pretty.
Great article Courtney and very informative. Also, VS is probably one of the worst companies to work for, they overwork their employees and make it mandatory to put up new and take down old displays and making girls work their days off to do so. They pay very little to their employees, unattainable sales quotas and it’s just doesn’t have a good reputation for treating their employees well. Just my 2 cents worth.
Such a great article! I recently got fitted by a bra specialist at soma-and it was one of the best decisions ever! My clothing looks better and I feel more confident!
I’ve actually have never tried Soma because they don’t have one close by me. But I’ve heard some great things from them! I’ll definitely have to order one of their bras and try it out!
Very interesting post. I am a long time VS bra purchaser; in fact in my adult life they are the only bras that I have purchased. I do agree with your post (despite my VS bra history). I am desperately in need of a few new bras and I’ve already been thinking I should shop elsewhere; I feel your post only confirms that. Thanks for the info.
Sarah, I’m so happy to help you. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask!
Helloooo they’re photos! I’m not really seeing this “gap” between the skin and bra, looks like a shadow to me. The racer back also looks pretty straight to me seeing as the model is turned. I will agree the sports bra is too small but the other push up.bras promote that cleavage because hello its a pushup! AND the “proper fitting bras” are demi and full coverage bras which happen to be none of the VS ones you compared. So I think its wrong to shame the VS name due to some ill shamed photos, especially with the way photoshop is used these days.
Hey Kay! Thanks for your comment. We all have different opinions and I appreciate you voicing yours.
^^ I Agree 100%! I have purchased bras from all over the place. The only bras that LAST and fit Perfectly are from VS. If you have issues with the company, That’s your right but at least find pics that support your cause. VS is a bit pricey but no more than Nordstroms or those little boutiques.
Sorry, I don’t see any truth in this rant. I have been more than happy with EVERY VS purchase I’ve ever made!
Kimberly Cole Zemke says
Since you love their bras so much maybe you can explain to me why I have three expensive VS bras in a year that I hand wash gently and the wires have come through the material. Why is this happening?
I totally agree with you! I used to buy from VS when I was in college and was a 32B. Then I had my son and went up to a 32DD at one point, I’m a 32D now that I’m no longer nursing. I had a “bra fitting” at VS and the girl (who I knew wasn’t certified because I knew her in a roundabout way from other friends!) slipped a tape measure around me OVER my clothes and told me I was a 34C. No way. Later on, I went to Belk to have a real bra fitting — in the dressing room, undressed, and tried on about 20 bras. The woman was so helpful and found me 2 really great bras that totally cover my breasts and lay flat on my ribcage area. One was actually Wacoal. Thanks for writing about this. I’m repinning on Pinterest!
Bethany, so glad to hear you were able to find a bra. The problem with VS is because they don’t carry a wide range of sizes they put you in a size that doesn’t fit. I’ve had it happen to me and have heard it from thousands of women.
I hate that they don’t carry nursing bras! Just makes me think that all they care about is the sexual aspect of breasts, not the functional!
I don’t think they’ll ever carry nursing bras. That’s ok because I don’t think their bras are that great anyway. Go check out my nursing bra guide where I list my favorite nursing bras. Go here: http://frysauceandgrits.com/2013/12/ultimate-guide-to-finding-perfect.html
Where would be a good place to find a decent bra? I’m tired of adjusting mine all the time, I need some help!
Aleisha, I really like Nordstrom, Dillard’s, Macy’s; independently owned bra boutiques, and online stores like: Amazon, Figleaves, and Herroom.
I was once a sucker for Victoria Secret bras. Never feeling comfortable in them, but assumed that was one of the “joys”of being female. I read a great article about a year ago on how to accurately measure yourself for the right bra using a tape measure and a mirror. I tried it and thought I’d done it way wrong! So I figured I’d go to Nordstrom and have a professional fitting. I was shocked! My measurements were spot on, and my jaw about hit the floor! I was trying to “force” myself into a bra 5x too small!! All because of a VS fitting years before. Needless to say, I will gladly spend the money on a high quality bra from Nordstrom! I never realized how comfortable the right bra could feel!
I immediately shared the article with all my sisters and girlfriends. It’s sad to think that the majority of women are wearing uncomfortable bras just to feel sexy, when they Don’t Have To.
Karalie, it’s so true. Most women live most of their lives in discomfort because they’ve never been educated on how they should be properly fitted. Thanks for sharing the knowledge to those you love!
I’ve actually never bought a VS bra. I’ve always thought their bras looked impractical and that they were trying to sell an image rather than a really good product that meets the average woman’s needs.
That’s why I have a hard problem with VS because I feel like they’re selling a fake and not reachable or attainable of goal of having skinny models with their boobs hanging out of their bras. I agree with you 100%!
Oh wow. I did not know some of this! I had no idea their fitters were not certified. This is so helpful. I have never bought from them because I didn’t like the way they were falling out in the pictures. I do not want to fall out! LOL! Also, I hate how they objectify women too. Thank you for a great, informative post!
I think feeling sexy is important as a woman, wife, mother, and etc. But I’m not a huge fan of projecting it and targeting teens. Thanks for your thoughtful comment!
Wow! So informative! I had no idea! Thanks Courtney!
Kristina, no problem. What are friends for, right?
I’ve always felt the same way about VS! The one time I went and got fitted there the gal tried to squeeze my into this tiny little bra with no support! They do have sexy/fun stuff, but totally impractical for an everyday bra! Anyways, love this post–pinned!
I personally have been fitted by courtney and I can testify that she is amazing! It was seriously the first bra in my life that ever fit correctly, and it feels amazing! Love this post, thanks for sharing!!
You make me blush. Love you Jessica!
Thanks for the helpful post! Ive never loved their products, but ‘thats where you go for bras, right?’ haha. The latest few I got from them didn’t even last 1 month before the top of the bras started to flip over :/ Thanks again!
You’re not alone in feeling that their quality is lacking. Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to leave your comment. That means so much to us!
I stopped shopping at VS because they ner had my size. There bras would always (or so I felt) target small breasted women. I mean they also only have skinny women workin there. I shop at Lane Bryant now.
Lane Bryant is a good place to go, but they only carry up to a H cup, which is pretty good. Nordstrom carries sizes up to a K cup.
I haven’t bought Victoria Secrets bras in years mostly because of the price. You gave some great tips on things to consider when buying bras that I’ve never paid much attention to. Pinned.
No problem Erica. I’m so glad I was able to help!
Brilliant Post. I’ve had trouble finding good bras. I always thought it was funny that people think VS is good quality. Thanks for the tips.
Hey Amy, that’s the common thought for most women that VS is the only place to go to buy their bras, but there’s far better places that have a wider range of sizes, selection, and quality for women. Thanks for stopping by!
Hi Courtney – I love this article! I always thought that VS had poor quality bras, but when I first became a BC survivor, I had the most horrible experience ever at that store. I wrote the company a letter and the response was crickets. Will never shop there again. One would think that a company “so committed” to “the girls” would care about BC – nope! It’s all lip service. I ended up getting fitted at Nordstrom with a very professional and caring bra fitter. I saved your article to feature on my website and would love for you to include it when I host some BC promotions in October. Hugs, Holly
Hey Holly! Thanks so much for commenting! I think Nordstrom has the best program for bra fitting and for providing the most products for mastectomy and reconstruction surgery. I’d love to help out! Look forward to reading your article! I’m actually in the works for something for October for BC Awareness Month. I’m really excited about it.
YES YES YES. Depending on the brand and the cut, I can wear a 28F-28H, and I have one 30G that fits me well too. I haven’t been able to fit in VS bras since I was a 32 D (and I was a 32D–my weight and boobs have fluctuated a lot, yay Crohn’s Disease!).
I buy my bras almost exclusively from Breakout Bras, a store in Greenville, SC. I’m originally from Greenwood, SC, and whenever I’m home visiting my parents, I go bra-shopping. It’s near-impossible for me to find bras in my size otherwise.
Brita, I’m so glad to hear you found a place to get all of your bras. I’ve never been to SC, but hear it’s gorgeous!
Thanks for the post. I did think VS was the place to shop for bras, but never went there because I didn’t think I could afford it. I still don’t think I can afford Nordstroms, but I know that next time I’ll try to find someone that is certified to help me. Thanks for your opinion.
Margaret, to score a cheap bra is to check out their sales, half yearly, and their anniversary sale. These are all great times to stock up.
Great post! I totally agree. I buy bras at Nordstrom and love the way they can really help me find something that fits. I thought bras were so uncomfortable in the past but it was just because VS put me in a 34 not a 32 and in the wrong cup size. Plus, for the quality they are (bad), I think VS is expensive!
I agree with you! I was incorrectly fitted at a VS store. The girl tried to tell me I was a 34C, but the band was sooo tight and uncomfortable. I ended up buying it anyway instead of my usual 36B. Well it gave me great cleavage but at the price of not being able to breathe. I’ve had 2 kids since and my rib cage is even wider now, needless to say I just wasted money on that trip. Not happy.
Roni, sometimes when the band size is snug, that’s actually a good thing because that’s where your support comes from. If your bra is so tight you can’t snap it in the back, then it’s probably too tight. The reason why you were thinking it was too tight was because you’ve never worn a “correct” fitting bra and it feels weird at first. 90% of women I fit I always end up going down one band size at least. So I would say try the 34C size one more time. But if you’re happy with the 36B, and the girls feel supported, then I’d say stick with that size.
This post is so helpful! I have always felt that the vs bras don’t fit me very well but it was just easier to go there since they have a big selection. I’m going to look into getting fitted somewhere else now.
I highly recommend that. Nordstrom, Dillard’s, Macy’s, and bra boutiques are all great choices.
Michelle Wynn says
Thank you for these articles about breast shape, correct sizing and why NOT to buy the VC bras. One thing I didn’t see addressed was the issue of straps. I am a larger busted gal (38DD – probably need a larger cup after reading these articles!) and my breast shape is large. But the bras that were some of your favs have really thin straps. These hurt! Isn’t there a good bra out there with wider straps?
Michelle, most bra manufactures will make the straps wider on larger cup sizes. So if you have a bra in a D cup, the straps aren’t going to be as wide as that same bra in a G cup. Hope that helps. Let me know if you have any other questions!
I have to disagree. I recently went to the VS in Las Vegas and got a fantastic fitting. All the things you say the pictures for wrong, my specialist showed me and I now have perfectly fitting bras. Those pictures are for advertisement purposes only.
I’m so glad you had a good experience at VS. You must have gotten a really good fitter.
After reading another of your articles a week ago, I finally went out and bought a sports bra that fits. Thanks for the tips from then. I wish I’d known more about bra fitting before. Just looking through these will also help me in the future know what to look for when bra shopping.
Funny story about VS:
When my sister was in high school, she was in a Secret Santa gift exchange. A guy got her name. He gave her money in an envelope and told her, “Everyone said I should get you a Victoria’s Secret gift card–that’s what all girls like. But I went to the mall and hung around for 30 minutes, but couldn’t bring myself to actually go into the store to get the gift card, so here’s the money instead.”
Thanks for the great post Courtney! I stopped buying from VS when I was in college. They never fit, and now I know it’s because those who do the bra fittings aren’t properly trained! I’ve continued to stay away from VS because I have ethical issues with the company – they have very questionable labor practices. Delta Galil Industries, which manufactures VS products has been condemned by Sweatshop Watch for its exploitation of labor in various countries. I have yet to find one solid place to purchase bras, but I plan to try Nordstrom for my next purchase.
That’s a really good point about VS. My older sister worked there and talked about how they pay like crap. Thanks for your comment.
Yes, lets not endorse sweat shop labor.
First I don’t doubt what you have written. In fact I do my best to avoid those kinds of fits. This is my experience. I shop at Victoria’s Secret and Pink because it is the only place in our area except Soma where I don’t have to hunt a person, stuggle with crowded racks that are packed with bras, plastic hangers, and tight spaces. that I can barely walk between. And the small hot dressing rooms! I have gone to department stores that boast of a fitter without sucess. I really dislike the Soma bra which cost more the VS. I bought but my adult daughter loves them. My teen girls and I like each other much better when we shop and are less frustrated when we have someone else help us. Every couple of years I try to go to a department store, I am not looking for sexy, just decent service and a shopping experience that doe not leave me exhausted. I suspect many women out there feel the same way.
I appreciate your comment. Yes, I do agree. Sometimes you don’t have many options and VS is the only place to go. Good thing there’s the internet that has tons of online bra stores like Her Room, Bigger Bras, and Figleaves to name a few.
I learned so much from this post! I stopped wearing VS bras after my daughter was born. Somehow the “girls” are never the same and I realized VS actually wasn’t all that great. Thanks so much for sharing this! I never thought I would examine VS models’ boobies so closely. Haha
Past VS employee says
I was employed at Victorias Secret for 3 years, and never measured a customer wrong. We are not permitted to ask them to remove their clothes for a “proper” fitting, but if they ever requested it, it was done. Any woman with a larger cup size we did not carry, or a size that just wasn’t working, I, nor my fellow associates would never make them squeeze into anything just for a sale. The first picture you’re picking apart is a Demi, it is cut low because that is the style. The second picture is a Bombshell, which is an Add 2 cup bra, which is why she has so much cleavage, it’s actually completing serving it’s purpose. As for your comment of “selling sex” to teenagers, the PINK brand is made specially for them, with fun colored very lightly lined bras. You have your own opinions and they are respected, but I wanted to clear a few things up from a past associate’s and VS customer’s point of view.
I really appreciate your comment. I wish I would have had you help me when I went into Victoria’s Secret. I know not ALL employees are bad, just the many experiences I’ve had weren’t helpful.
I love this. I haven’t bought a VS bra in yearssssss! Ridiculous cost and the darn wires pop out so fast. Thanks for sharing at the Wednesday Roundup Link Party!
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You’re not a Debbie Downer at all. VS sells sex, not bras. I need to bite the bullet and spend the extra money and go to a place that has professionals who know what they are doing. I can’t remember the last time I had a bra that was truly comfortable. Thanks for the tips.
It is very obvious that they make the bra look “sexy” by over stuffing the bras (i.e. they are way to small for the models) That is very poor advertising on their part. It does send the wrong message to teens.
I do like my under garments to look pretty and feel like I am not wearing anything. I don’t like to suffer for my fashion.
I switched to VS Invisibles bra because it is the ONLY bra I have bought that the exposed elastic does NOT cause my skin to break out. Why do the bra manufactures have to put exposed elastic that often contains latex in every bra they make? My allergy is mild but after 6 hours I am extremely uncomfortable with every bra I have ever tried for 40 years.
After being properly fitted by another company, I bought my first VS Invisibles. Though the bra does not last as long at least now I don’t have the red raw line every night after wearing a bra for 8 hours.
It is not just bras that cause problems. I also wear VS panties that have lace instead of elastic on them.
I love this and totally agree! I found a long time ago that their bras were cheap. And I totally agree with your last reason too!
I have never bought a VS bra, though I do find their underwear comfy. I have a booty, round a shapely [Like a kim kardashian issue but far from that extreme] and their underwear actually fits without riding up and being awkward. But aside from that, I’ve never bought a bra because most of the time, I can’t find mine. I’m a 32D, so almost the same problem as you, stores always tell me a 34C is the same thing and it’s not. The 34C actually gapes in the cup, oddly enough and the back never fits well where the 32D actually stays fitted to me, spaces the girls out properly AND I don’t gush out of the cups or have that awkward bra line under my shirts because my bra is pulling away from my chest.
Proper bra fit is hard! It even varies by designer and even within designer, the bra type. I’ve ordered two different bras from the same company and one would be too small, go figure!
Thanks for the information though! I was honestly just going to go look into a bra there because I was caving under the difficulty of finding my size. [We don’t have a Nordstroms here, so I can’t go there either!]
I told myself I shouldn’t shop there because they don’t even have my size. I’m a 26F, so its no surprise that I would have to look elsewhere. lol But I think ALL well fitting bras are expensive, most will be more than VS. I still haven’t bought another brand, because so many seem so bland and boring looking, even if I do need to wear the right size. They put me at a 32 D at VS, the band is too big and it doesn’t cover all of my breasts.
The moment I quit buying VS bras was the day I was free! I found a great bra that fits me well and I don’t have to fidget with ALLLLL day! I love your articles on bras!
I felt the same way. Thanks so much for visiting abd trashing tone out of your day to comment.
I worked at VS during college, and it was a fantastic experience! Just wanted to point out that none of the bras I’ve ever bought from there (and I still buy almost all of them from VS) fit me like they do the models in the pics you posted. But, DUH, right?! Nothing I buy fits me like it does the model. I’m always happy with the way they look on me though, as long as I’m wearing the right size. And they hold up for years in my experience. Different strokes…
Im so glad you’ve had great experiences there. I haven’t, but that’s ok. I appreciate your comment!
Thank you for the article, I loved it! Would you recommend Aerie bras?
I’ve never tried them but I think they work just fine if you find one that fits! I’m glad to see they sell bras in smaller band sizes, like a 30.
Amen! Thank you for this post! I have NEVER shopped at VS before. Why? Because of how the objectify women. I’m glad to see that it isn’t the be all end all that everyone touts it to be. I’m glad I’m not missing out. I HATE bras, so I try to find the most comfortable ones possible. I’m a 34DD and wish I was much smaller because these suckers are uncomfortable. All those smaller busted ladies should be thankful that they are, because small breast bras are sooooo much cuter than big busted bras. I’m going to check out some of your other posts. Thanks!
I’ve always bought my bras from VS, and while I like most of the bras I’ve purchased, I agree that they tend to stretch out or have the underwire break through the seam very quickly for the price you pay. But I’ve always thought VS was the only option around!!
Where do you find all these other bras you have mentioned and the consultants to measure properly?? If I have been measured wrong by VS all these years, I can’t just buy a bra online, since it would be the wrong size, right?
Hey Alli, if you have some department stores closes by like Nordstrom, Macy’s, Dillard’s or a bra boutique that specializes in fitting those are great places to get fitted. I offer online and in person bra consultations too! You can email me at [email protected] to schedule an appointment. Most of the bras I recommend you can find them at the places I mentioned. The great thing is you can find them ALL online. Or
It pains me to hear about the horror stories you all have about VS. I have been working there for 4 years, left and came back because there truly is no place better. They hold true to their values as a company and strive to make women feel confident. For some women confidence is sexy and that’s how THEY want to look. I’m a 38DDD and speak to my customers from my heart and If something in my store does not work out, I personally send them to Nordstroms or Soma to find something that will work for them. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but before misleading the public, you should inform yourself with facts.
I don’t doubt many have had horrible experiences with Victoria’s Secret, but I personally love them. The woman who fitted me was an older lady and looked like she had seen a thing or two from girls who had no idea what their bra size was. I love their Fabulous Plunge bra (I found it after buying quite a few that just weren’t working for me) and boy let me tell you, that bra is perfect for me.
i totally see your point from the pictures and everything and i 100% respect your opinion, but at the same time, i am also entitled to my own opinion and personal experience. the first time i had a fitting at VS i was nervous as hell, the store is hella intimidating, but the ladies are so incredibly friendly and fitted me with a 36DD – an average to the slightly bigger size, i’d say. i took the basic body by VS bras, nothing fancy or push up, and they’ve lasted me for more than 2 years. i have never had a bra fit better and give the amount of support that the VS bras have.
i think at the end of the day, it’s all about finding what fits right for you and what gives you the most amount of confidence in. i found that at VS – and i am by no means a skinny girl either. but other girls are going to find that at other places, and that’s perfectly okay. as long as YOU are comfortable, and YOU are confident.
I have been wearing nothing but VS bras since I started wearing bras. They never fit totally BAD, but they didn’t fit great either. I have been measured at VS many times and they always put me in a 32B. After reading this I went into the bathroom and measured myself and my band width is 29! No wonder all my bras are always gaping at the top and sliding around. Thank you for the article! I can’t wait to go bra shopping tomorrow! haha
Good luck finding a 29 band. Did you know you can order a 30 band on Victorias Secret website?? Oh and if you’re a 32B than you’ll be a 30C trust me. I change lives one bra at a time. I’ve had more customer compliments on my bra fittings. I take pride in what I do.
First off bra girls really do get certified at VS…I work there as one of our full time bra specialists and I was certified for 3 months before I could be promoted! I LOVE VICTORIAS SECRET! Granted we could carry more sizes even I agree with that. But taking jabs at our employees is wrong. Sure you might get that new employee that will get better with practice as far as measurment BUT to say we don’t know what we’re doing is ignorant. Please do more research before you go on our local news station for all to see. You could’ve promoted your views without bashing another company.
This is really good to know! I usually go to VS to get sized, even if I don’t buy from there- because I thought they know what they’re doing! Now I’ll go to Nordstrom instead, because I don’t like VS sexy photos all over the place.
We do not have VS stores where I live, but I was buying bras online and had five purchases in a row where even after measuring and entering my sizes, I was still ending up with bras that were the wrong fit, or so low cut that when I lean over my breasts were falling out! I finally bit the bullet and went to get a professional bra fitting, and I am so glad I did. I walked out with a new bra and a new sports bra, and am loving my purchases. No more chafing, double boob or straps sliding down my shoulders!
I hate VS for this reason! They constantly try to tell me I’m a 34C (which in reality I’m a 32E) and I’m constantly popping out of their bras. They’re falling apart after a few washes and wires jabbing me in the chest after a few wears. I got fitted at Nordstroms and it legit changed my life. I had no idea they go through so much training to get certified! And no wonder why! Its a massive change! Yeah I end up spending double what I would spend elsewhere on a bra but it fits and it lasts.
Great article. I haven’t bought from VS in years and years after a friend of mine became a Bra Fit Specialist at Nordstroms. I found that VS was measuring me as a 34D (so that I would buy one of their bras) when in reality, I am a 36DD. I went from having boobs overflowing out of my bra (and sometimes shirt) to being able to fit into (most) tops with out boobs all over the place!
That’s crazy. I’m glad you found the right size!!
I’m a 32B and all of my bras fit the “wrong” way according to this post. I’ve bought from Nordstrom, VS, Frederick’s of Hollywood, Target, Wal-Mart, JC Penney, Sears, Bealls… you get the idea. Women aren’t built the same, and not all bras fit women the “right” way if we go by the guidelines here. None of mine have ever hit midback, and underwire doesn’t stay “under” because there’s no breast tissue for it to BE under being that I’m a small B.
And honestly, I want cleavage and I’m dang happy when I get some boobage coming out the top. That makes my day. I don’t need support, I just need to not be “pointing” at everything.
Also, if a sports bra isn’t tight fitting, it negates the entire point of wearing it. I see nothing wrong with the bra that model is wearing. Any larger and she’d bounce around when running and then there’s no point in wearing the bra.
If this was suppose to be a guideline for big-breasted women, then say so, but this hasn’t convinced me of anything negative regarding how bras are worn or VS.
Hey Stephanie. I feel that for some women push up bras are fine, but for majority of the women I don’t recommend them for everyday wear. For a lot of women they’re not practical, but that’s totally depending on the woman and her lifestyle and taste. No this guide isn’t for large breasted women, it’s a guide for all women. I appreciate you commenting and your opinion. You’re totally entitled to yours and so am I.
This article is of one person’s opinion. There isn’t a standard correct way for a woman to wear a bra, it’s however she feels comfortable! Yes there are recommended guidelines on how to properly wear a bra but it all comes down to what makes her feel comfortable, sexy, and confident. Some women do like to have their breasts plump as shown in the photos above and actually look for bras that are going to do that for them. It is not our place to judge or tell her that she is wrong if that is what she wants. Additionally, Victoria’s Secret bras are made EXCEPTIONALLY well. You can tell by the look and the feel of the fabric alone. It is recommended to hand wash your bras but I can tell you that I have been wearing VS bras for years and have never hand washed them. I wash them in the washing machine and then hang them to dry and place them in my draw properly when dried. Doing this has had them last for years. If yours didn’t last then you have not taken care of them properly. Lastly, I too am an employee of VS and I can assure that it is a fantastic company to work for. They take care of their employees and do not overwork you as mentioned in a comment on this article.
Hey Courtney! Interesting article and I agree with all of things you said when comparing the different photos. I, too, felt the same way as you about Victoria’s Secret… until I started working there and received bra certification. I am quite larger than the average Victoria’s Secret model, though I am not quite plus size. I always felt a little bit of resentment toward VS because I am wider and heavier, though I still have small breasts. It’s hard to find 38B bras and even when they are available, it’s always black, white, or nude.
The way VS models fit in their bras is NOT how a VS employee is supposed to fit customers. Sure, larger women will have a harder time finding something that fits at VS. However, VS associates are supposed to be focused on finding bras that fit just like the alternate bra styles you provided from other companies. A center gore should lay flat, the band should be parallel to the ground, and your boobs should not be spilling out of the cups. Those are all things every associate learns from the moment they begin onboarding. It is an important mission of associates to learn how a customer’s bra is fitting currently, have her try on different styles (because, of course, certain styles work better for some women than others), and ultimately let HER decide which size and style she feels most comfortable in. Some women like very little pushup for everyday wear, and others want cleavage to their neck. VS models are exactly that – models – and not a representation of the average woman. I know that I will never look like Adriana Lima. However, even though I am bigger, I can wear VS lingerie and feel I’m getting great support, while also knowing my boyfriend will like it too. That is a great thing for me as someone who is not very positive about her body. I don’t feel objectified in any way, but rather I feel feminine and confident, even when nobody will be seeing what I’m wearing underneath my clothes. It’s also exactly why I hate the VS Body by Victoria collection. To me, it’s boring and not very sexy, though most women who come into VS find it to be their favorite collection.
Great bras exist at many companies, and I think VS is one of them. VS makes me feel confident and pretty, even though I’m like twice the size of the other associates. I don’t feel like VS’s mission is to make women appealing to men… It’s about making HER feel confident and beautiful, no matter how she likes her bra to fit or what styles she likes!
If you buy VS bras from the better quality collections, they should last you a long time. Of course, if you buy PINK, cotton, or Sexy Tee bras, they definitely won’t last as long, but they’re also half the price. And if you’re not hanging your bras to dry, as you shouldn’t, the straps and band shouldn’t stretch out too much. I’ve alternated between just a couple bras every day and they lasted me a few years.
Finally, VS is a great company to work for. I’m well taken care of, I can take breaks when needed, and I am able to take off when sick. I am paid $2 more than my last management position, and I worked in my last position much, much longer. When there was a natural disaster in my area and the power was out for weeks, VS was the first to call and provide employees with hotel rooms for hot showers.
I really appreciate your comment. I’m glad to know that VS is more than a company just selling bras.
It sounds as though you are in an area with a great District and/or Regional Manager! I too worked for VS (many years ago) and my experience with them was not a pleasant one. However the experience I gained allowed me to go on in my management career, moving on to Maidenform, than into bridal until I began my new career as Mom.
Having had that experience, and being one of those few women who have been trained to properly fit bras, does it seem to anyone else that the very design and definition of “full coverage” has changed? I have tried so many brands to find that “proper fit” with little success. I’m one of the lucky ones – I KNOW how to spot an incorrect fit! And still even I have difficulty. I even resorted to trying Jockey and their new fitting concept. Those bras just rode up. VS no longer fits as their “full coverage” means the girls are falling out the top. Now, back when I worked for them (in the &0’s) the current “full coverage” style bras would have been classified as demi bras. I even commented on that on their site – only to have a condescending email from VS on how I’m wearing the wrong size bra!
– – – Now, I MUST stress… I was trained by VS (I was the manager in charge of the bra room) I was Store Manager for Maidenform – – –
Full coverage is just that – the boob is fully in the cup, not popping over the top or being squished in a way that makes it look like you have 4 little boobs. I recently pulled out an old “Body by Victoria” bra that I didn’t wear often and compared the cups (same size bra) to a current version. The cups are narrower. There is less material on the top and the straps have been moved out farther to the sides.
I will say that I had success in finding a well fitting full coverage bra that was comfortable and made the girls look good and made me feel attractive in my clothes. And isn’t that what we want? ‘Course than Soma discontinued them and since I’ve been working out my bras size has changed. (Which is really unfair since I was never that big to begin with) And they too are designing their “full coverage” bras with a more narrow cup.
I was on one site, I forget which, and took a look at their bra fitting guide – according to them I should wear a 36B. Now, the way I was trained (much the same as Courtney) I wear a 32D.
I’ve gone to Macy’s and Dillards. They don’t have my size, and the fitters are not trained in fitting and have little knowledge of their product lines. – Let me just say that I live in a large metropolitan area. – Online buying is frustrating, as you may get free shipping – but you pay to return them. Yes, you can do Zappos.com or Trueandco.com which offers free returns, but the selection isn’t very large.
Somewhere along the way, the sizing structure and cup definitions has changed. Probably a marketing thing to get us all out to buy new bras. Which, is funny when you think about it since our bras DO wear out. I was trained that the life of a bra is about 6 months. Hey, those babies do quite a bit of work so that makes sense. And we’re women, we like pretty things so it’s a no brainer that we would like pretty new bras. So why change the sizing and cups? Who are lingerie companies targeting? My teenage daughter? College age women? 20’s?
Let’s be real. How much disposable income do those age groups have? What about the educated, gainfully employed 30’s. Or the 40’s and 50’s who no longer need to work to live. What about the older ladies who still want pretty lingerie? We women have money to spend. And apparel companies are leaving us behind, chasing after the younger broke crowd.
It’s no wonder we women are confused about bras!
– – – and while I’m at it… Please, you ladies who work for and defend VS. Store level and catalog are 2 very different things. The catalogs of old managed to be elegant and sexy. The new versions feature items that look as though they were taken from s&m/bondage. This is very sad when you consider that VS began when Roy Raymond was embarrassed in a dept. store trying to buy lingerie for his wife. The entire message of VS has changed. Their models have become considerably younger. Once upon a time, VS lingerie carried beautiful items – silks, satins, bras that were pretty – but still kept everything where it’s supposed to. Then they ventured into Fredricks of Hollywood land, which was considered racy. What does that say that now Fredricks is more tame than VS?
*** And those of you at store level… I haven’t been impressed with the level of professionalism in my local stores. The lack of knowledge and customer service is astounding. – Gosh, I’m sorry that I’m interrupting your gossip/bitching session to ask you to help me. – I’m stunned that these stores make their make their numbers.
Ladies, your frustration is shared. Now share it with these companies. Call them, write to them, text, tweet, post on Facebook. Obviously the ladies who have been trained by dept. stores, VS, etc. that have posted here care about what they do. These are the ladies who are the gems, so rare and prized we all wish we came across them in our daily shopping lives – oh how our days would be better for finding them.
Courtney – keep up the good work. Women deserve to look and feel beautiful. We should get to spend our days living without poking wires, falling or digging straps, and drooping girls. Thank you for reminding us, and offering help.
Sammy, beautifully said. I can tell you have a lot of passion, just like me! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the blog. It’s people like you that make me smile!
Also, one more thing because I read that ridiculous post about how VS objectifies women.
I’ll tell you one thing, I feel much much much more intimidated and bad about myself when I see the girls I go to college with than I do when I see a VS model. Why? Because girls in my class are right there in front of me and are just like me, only they have itty bitty bodies that can fit into anything. I’m not intimidated by women in magazines or on TV because I’m aware that they’re photoshopped or have superior makeup.
Courtney- My two cents… you’re a genius. The snotty comments on here about “that’s your own opinion” and “i’ve worn them for years and blah-blah-blah” is the unfortunate reason that it’s a 6.6 billion dollar business and that 70% of American women shop there. In college I wanted to ease into my Victoria Secret purchases because of the outrageous cost. I went in, bought five + pairs of underwear (not even a thong or anything fancy) after ONE washing they all unraveled! Cripes! What a waste of money. Give me cotton Hanes… Disaster. Luckily for my husband I’ll stick to Wacoal and shop at Macy’s where they’ll take the time to fit me properly and not try to force me into buying something I shouldn’t. Thank you so much for this fantastic post, along with all the others you’ve written, and inspiring me to find the perfect fitting bra- NOT at VS… Now if you’ll excuse me, I gotta get this bra off…
I’m so glad you feel that way. Everyone is entitled to their opinions, even the negative ones. I love how this topic gets people so passionate, including me.
Victoria’s Secret is the only place I have ever purchased my bras. The last time I got measured, probably 6-7 years ago, I was measured at a 34B. I tried on 34B and the bra would not stay on. So, I began wearing a 32C, it was a lot more comfortable. I wore 32C for 5 years, got pregnant and had a baby, but those years we are not counting for bra size. I recently was refitted, the woman did not measure me, instead she had me open the door and show her, as long as I was comfortable. Some people may be uncomfortable about that, but I was fine. 32 C in one type of bra was too small. So she had me try on 32 D. It was more comfortable in some aspects. It covers a little more than I would like. I would have liked a little less bra and a little more boob. My 32C bras I have never have bothered me. Either way, I went with a 32D. The other 3 bras I purchased were in 32C, one being a sports bra, one being a PINK bra, and one being strapless. The 32D strapless would have never have worked. It fell off in multiple lines of strapless. 32C strapless ones worked. They stay up, and what I don’t miss my straps. I feel half naked, but hey, at least you don’t see bra strap. 34 band size never fit.
One last thing, I am petite, measurements being 33-23-34.
And I look like I have A/B, especially with my old bras that are quite a few years old, like 5, minimum. And without push-up bras haha. I don’t mind though.
I would absolutely never trust anyone else with my bras. Their gearing toward college aged students, not teenagers, in PINK, check out their dorm and campus gear.
Victoria’s Secret is geared towards women.
And it makes many feel extremely sexy, and yes, comfortable.
Surprisingly enough. I used to buy from VS since my boyfriend has an employee discount (he works for corporate L. Brands). Before, my weight stabilized and I wasn’t changing in band size for a while. Last year I decided it was time to get refitted for a different bra because my current bra wad riding up the back and I didn’t feel supported at all. So I go to thw store and was getting measured. The employee agreed that the band was now too big for me (measured at 34DDD prior). Now I was measuring st a 32DDD. For one, I know the cup size didn’t change for me.So going to a 32DDD was too small. So I humored her and tried on the 32DDD bra and she noticed I was bulging over the top of the cup. She gave me other bras to try but still the same result. She was at least nice and told me, “look you should probably go to Nordstrom and try on a 32F. I don’t want to sell you any bras that you clearly don’t fit and it’s not fair to you either.” After that, I stopped shopping at VS. I fit into a 30FF anf that was that. Now the 30FF is big on me… since I lost more weight. I should probably try on more sizes like a 28FF or something equivalent.
Alyssa, I’m so glad that VS employee REALLY did help you. 28FF can be found readily online. You might not find them much in brick and mortar stores.
Hi there! I just wanted to add that I like the bras pictured in the advert, I have small breasts and if they were laying the ‘correct way’ they would be flat..no point in a bra then. im petite all over :/ any recomendations? my go to and best fiting bra was the wonderbra by maidenform. very sof and are still fine 3 years down the line..but i think they are no longer being made :/ any help would be lovely! (i wear a 32A)
Good article – the commentary on the lack of longevity and excessive sexuality in VS products is worth considering. However, I don’t find the analysis of a lot of these images to be very convincing, not because I disagree with how well VS bras fit, but because there’s a vast difference between all the models shown and probably a whole lot of photoshop covering up the truth everywhere.
The VS models are all thin and toned, whereas most of the models for the other brands are healthy and full-figured. This is probably why the gore appears to fit the models in other brands better than the VS models, who have a natural (or photoshopped) indentation in their skin just beneath the gore. It’s not really a gap that’s large enough to criticize. Also, what’s wrong with cleavage? That’s the advertised intent of a push-up bra. Plus, I wouldn’t take the cleavage in these pictures very seriously because they’re evidently photoshopped. In the image of the girl in the lilac VS bra, the cleavage on her right breast seems to end at the base of the wire, which is unrealistic.
That being said, I like some of the VS bras, but I’m a smaller gal. I’ve noticed my bustier friends tend to avoid VS.
I have bought bra’s at Victoria’s Secret probably for the last 8-10 years, but recently when I needed some new bra’s I noticed the bra’s were just not the same as my old ones and maybe my breasts have changed as well. Needless to say I went to Nordstrom to be fitted and was told that I am a 36 G or 38 DDD, compared to the 36 DD or 38 DD at VS. Now they fitted me with some bra’s that when I put them on looked absolutely stunning, but when I put them on the next day and wore it all day long, the straps cut into my arms and the band in the back rolled up on the ends. I have tried and bought and returned bra’s 4 times now. I wander if they are going to turn down one of my returns. Thanks goodness they haven’t. I thought I will try one more time and thought I have gotten closer, but could not wait to get the bra off when I got home as it felt like rubber on my skin in the back and rolled up at the bottom. Now VS never hurt me or dug into me, I am tempted to go back. Either the new bra’s that are pricey are just not comfortable or I wear the wrong size and live in comfort. Not sure what direction to go.
I’m sorry to hear you’re having so many problems. Did you try loosening up the straps? Sometimes the way were shaped makes the band curl up a bit. What I suggest is to get a band that is really thick and wide, this will help prevent it from curling up. Keep trying, sometimes it takes a couple of times to find the perfect bra. If you need help I offer bra consults online and in person and have a really high success rate, email me at cfrysauceandgrits at gmail dot com.
During the past 2 years I have become annoyed with VS prices and horrible quality bras, after having worn them all of my adult life.
At your suggestion I went to the closest shop to me, Soma. The staff took 45 minutes for measuring and fitting the best bras for my size and shape. Surprise – just like you said, the over the clothing measurements the little girl at VS took was completely inaccurate.
Back to my Soma experience. With a 20% coupon (signed up for email with Soma; create an account and get points and bonuses) I walked out with three bras and a free panty for $100 and change. Wore my first bra by Soma today and OMG….the BEST thing I’ve ever done for my body!
Thank you SO MUCH for providing suggestions for alternatives to VS.
So it seems as though your dislike for VS bras & specialist is deep. As a long-time VS bra specialist I want to say it is very nice to read about your passion for the need of women to feel amazing when wearing a comfortable well-fitting bra. You’re correct about the models wearing improper sized bras, I have often had the urge to re-fit them myself lol! I also agree VS should carry maternity bras. But, VS bra specialists are trained and many of us take great pride in what we do. And, honestly Body by Victoria bras are extremely comfortable, without overly emphasizing sexiness, well-made, and are not outrageously priced when compared to other bras you suggested.
Thanks for providing info to women, but taking jabs at other bra specialists is not needed.
I disagree with this post. After shopping extensively for the bra that makes me feel and look good, VS has been the best place for me. Their bras fit me much better than any other brand that I’ve tried. The pictures of the “well fitting bras” cannot fairly be compared to the ones you showed of the VS bras. But even so, only the sports bra looked like it didn’t fit. Aside from that, you seem to be shaming them for advertising sexy. While they do have the basic everyday bras, it seems that they specialize in the sexy ones, and sexuality in general. And what’s wrong with that? Any woman who says they’ve never wanted to look sexy for her man, or just for herself, isn’t telling the truth. We all want to look and feel good, no matter the type of bra, and Vicorias Secret has done that for me.
I personally disagree, I have been shopping there for years the bras have last me for years I hand wash them and I don’t fold them I have them up in my closet. The bra fits perfect and they are comfortable. Once you find your size you won’t have a problem. and yes they over sexualize but females like to feel sexy and feminine and their commercials catch your attention. Every example you have given me to show why I shouldn’t buy from them can be solved by them getting a bigger size. If you go on in the store to get fit and you try on a bra and you don’t like the way it fits you ask for a different size and they help you they don’t force you to buy a size that doesn’t fit you. And if you take care of your bras they will last. Washing machine damages all clothes over time.
I was wondering if you’d seen the proper bra fit and measuring guide that’s on ( http://sameatschildren.tumblr.com/post/45962915522/do-it-now-guide-to-proper-bra-fit-and-measuring ) and what your thoughts were on that? She emphasizes measuring your under bust for the exact band size and then bending over and measuring across the nipples and using the difference in the 2 numbers to determine cup size. She also emphasizes only using UK sizing and not American sizing.
I have been wearing a VS 36C, which I find uncomfortable. the band feels tight and there is a gap at the top of the cups. In the way of measuring purported by the tumblr I read, I would be a UK size 32DDD or G.
I’m just curious if you’re aware of this sizing method and what your thoughts are. I can’t imagine trying to squeeze myself into a 32, no matter how ginormous the cup size is.
Thanks for your time.
Since when do they carry 30 band size? I’ll be honest….if they made 30DD, then I’d buy it. Back when I was wearing the wrong size (32B) and showing all the classic symptoms of an ill-fitting bra, I bought VS bras, and frankly, they were cute and held up well. Besides the fact that I wore the wrong size, the bras were comfy (straps & wires didn’t cut in, but then the band floated around my torso….). My gripe with them is how narrow their sizing selection is. This post actually gives them more credit than they deserve when it comes to size range available.
I also agree that the models show how a bra is NOT supposed to fit, which will confuse women as to how they should look in their bra when it fits well. Obviously VS is putting the models in too small cups to make them look sexier, but IRL, a good fit is more flattering underneath clothes (more lift, better shape, etc), even if you don’t get super sexy cleavage spilling out when your top comes off. Let’s not forget the main point – the bra can actually do it’s job when it fits well, ie give SUPPORT. It took me time to get used to the look of a well-fitting bra, but it looks so much better under clothes (and without any need of padding) that I’d never go back to too small cups with thick pads and no support.
Thank you so much for writing this article, I completely agree with you. I was beginning to feel that maybe something was wrong with me because I didn’t understand the hype around VS. I have been twice and I don’t plan on going back, I wish I had know more about correct bra fitting (I read your Bra guide: How they should and shouldn’t fit) before going the first time, I left the store with an ill fitting bra and just assumed maybe I had a weird chest shape. I am busty and they were having a difficult time accurately measuring me to fit into one of there bras without one part of me falling out. Thank you so much for taking the time to write both articles, I feel empowered to make a better choice for a bra that would fit my needs.
Great information on bras, but I also love the message about Victoria’s Secret. I am fully on board with banning them. They create way too much body shame, and they are aiming much of their advertising at younger and younger age groups. I wrote a post about them a few months ago and feel strongly about empowering women and body image. Thanks for the post! I enjoyed it!
Thank you for this article! I too used to shop at VS because few places carry a 32 band size. For years, they told me I was a 32B despite the fact that I was uncomfortable and falling out of the bras. Desperate to get rid of the discomfort, I found a Nordstrom Rack an hour and a half away from me. I was measured there by a wonderful lady, who looked just a few years older than I. She was horrified when we were walking into the dressing room and I had told her I had worn a 32B for years because that’s what VS measured me as. The first thing she said after that was “You’re definitely not a B”.
This wonderful lady went above and beyond to make sure I was in properly fitting bras. She asked what styles I liked, preferred colors, etc, and went out into the store and picked out bras for me. She came in after I tried on each bra and told me if it fit or not, as well as showing me how she could tell. It was a Saturday and busy as all get out, but this wonderful lady took the time to really give me a great experience and it made all the difference to me. Months later, I still regularly tell friends about my experience and tell them to go to a Nordstrom’s and get measured if they can.
Bras in a 32D are impossible to find for me unless I go to VS. I avoid VS at all costs because their bras give me quadraboob (where the cup cuts into the breast falling out above the cup, making it look like you have 4 boobs, hence the name). I mainly buy online because department stores near me don’t even carry my size, but sizing varies from brand to brand and is a hit or miss online. I mainly buy from Aerie since I don’t have one near me and their size is consistent.
I’m not a large person, as I’m 5’8″ and 130 lbs, but the way I’ve seen sales associates at VS treat larger built women is a main reason why I won’t go there anymore. As a former S.A (not for VS), it absolutely appalled me that the sales associate had the guts to ask a woman if she was sure she needed a size extra large (the woman was underwear shopping). How dare you second guess the person who’s trying on the article of clothing to begin with and how dare you announce the size so loud the entire store can hear it? I set down the pair of sweatpants I had been looking at (I had been searching every store for sweatpants with non-elastic bottoms and finally found some at VS) and walked right out.
I refuse to be forced into bras half my size, to have poorly made bras, and to stand behind a company that allows SA to be biased towards larger women. I’m not a 32B, I’m a 32D and I’ll be damned if some high school aged VS SA tells me any different. I refuse to be looked at and told “You’re not a D” and then steered over to smaller bras. I’m the size a PROFESSIONAL bra sizer tells me, not the size an under-educated sales associate for a chain lingerie store tells me.
I love how passionate you are about this, because this is how I feel about VS too. I’m so glad you were able to find the right fitting bra and living a happier and more comfortable life!!
Wow! I always just thought I was hard to fit because nothing ever felt right!
Thank you so much for this post. I had no idea that there were certifications or anything like that. I’m definitely going to be stopping by Nordstrom for a fitting
Great post! I feel that Victoria Secret bras definitely lack. They’re nice when you try them on in the store but as far as everyday use I always spill out of them and the underwire always ends up coming out. Not impressed with the quality!
everything about this make me sad. I know everyone has their own opinion about stores, however, I think it is extremely important to make a few things corrected here. I have been with the company for 5 years, and we have changed a lot within all those years. We have gone through some major changes that put us in the customers shoes. Since I have been with the company I have been certified 10 times. That is twice a year, they have us go through the classes, the time spent with customers. We measure to fit our bras, just like other stores do to fit their bras. When I went into VS for the first times I remember walking in there crying because of the fitting I had just got at a department store, they were extremely rude and gave me a bra that would never work. VS ended up fitting me and making me feel confident, and sexy in my own body. That was when I realized I have to be apart of that. I then realized that it wasn’t necessarily the company that made that store great it was the managers. Looking back at it the department store that I went to the manager was leaving on the desk and sent the associate to “fit” me. When I became a manager I had to go through extensive classes that started to role out. Just remember that a store is only as good as the manager that cast the shadow, please do. To judge one VS store for the whole company, it would be saying lets judge the human race by the person sitting in jail who murdered. Another thing I want to clear up is we do not get paid by sales we are only there to give you customer service, and they are great with our days off. Like I said I this won’t change your mind to go there or not I just want to inform you on something that have change since the last time that anyone has visited a store.
Kristin. Yach says
That’s good to know. It may be time for me to be refit, as I don’t believe I’m in the correct size. It’s difficult for those of us in small towns to measure yourself and order online.
I would respectfully disagree. I thought I wore a 34B throughout all of college (not really sure why I thought this, just tried them on at Target and they seemed okay? lol) but a friend dragged me to VS for a fitting and they measured me properly and put my in a 32D. It was AMAZING to finally be in a bra that fit! I didn’t know bras could fit so well! lol. I would agree that I’m sure the quality of the fitting specialists varies widely between different stores. I live in a big city, so I feel that the bra specialists here may be a notch up from smaller stores? But maybe not. Either way, I had a great experience and I’m so happy I’m finally wearing a bra that fits! The most important thing a woman can do is get properly fitted by someone competent, whoever and wherever that may be!
So, I bit the bullet this weekend and went to VS after reading this article. I have always been a 34C but after having my son 5 years ago and breastfeeding, I never found a bra to fit right and “the girls” just looked terrible. I was hopeless and have read almost every article on this site including this one. I recently found a coupon for $10 off a bra at VS and some extra cash so I figured no harm in trying. Best thing I have done. I was fitted at VS. Turns out I’m a 34 DD. I couldn’t believe it when she told me but when she gave me a bra to try one I was AMAZED. The fit was perfect. They looked perky and lifted and like I had set the time machine 5 years back I bought 2, a nude and a black. Everything I wear looks better (even my husband and other people that don’t know are giving me compliments on my figure). Now, let’s see how much they last. Hoping they last at least a year because I wont lie, the price is kind of hefty.
I’m glad you found a bra that fit you!
Okay. First of all, for all of you complaining about the prices, many of the brands mentioned run around 60-70 dollars. You can buy a GOOD bra at VS for 45. Second of all if your bra stretched out chances are you aren’t taking care of it and properly washing it. Where was the TLC of bra care in your article? Third of all, I am the Bra Specialist at a VS and I can assure you, my team and I know what they are doing. I would NEVER put somebody in our bra if they didn’t properly fit, I don’t even like suggesting sister sizes, but if I do I tell them to try it on because chances are it won’t fit properly. Maybe the VS you were at didn’t care as much as they should and I can assure you our company is dedicated to getting women in their right bra. I understand your opinion, and you have ever right to make it, but don’t judge the whole brand and every one who may work there from one bad apple.
I bought a VS bra the other day. It was before I read this, but I don’t have any issues with the bra I bought. I got the demi t-shirt bra (because t-shirts pretty much make up my entire wardrobe) and it fits perfectly. I was measured when I was there. I’m used to being a 32 or 34 C but the girl who measured me handed me a 34DD, but it could just be sizing differences because the whole ego whatnot. The thing is: it really does fit. It’s probably the most comfortable bra I’ve owned. Maybe I just haven’t been buying bras from the right places?
I read the article about how a bra should fit, and I admit, it’s low on each boob, but it’s very comfortable. I’m hoping that it will last longer than many have said because I’m not exactly rolling in dough and don’t want to buy another anytime soon. I suppose I’ve been lucky here
(definitely giving some of your other suggestions a try though!)
Me shouldn’t disagree since an ill fitting bra can disfigure your chest not to mention torment the poor wearer and put her in a very disagreeable mood.
That being said I realize there are probably much better places to find bras than VS but they are not as bad as serious bra people make them out to be. I got my right size done there the first time and occasionally I get a new fitting and always the same size. Even if they did me over my clothes it didn’t make a difference, I’m a 34D, I have a 33 inch rib cage plus 4 extra inches of boob, 32DD, 34C, and 36C all give me problems. I have tried to branch away from VS but I always get frustrated and return there so I think that says a lot about thier store. I do think they make horrible sports bras which I’m really passionate about but so do many other brands. I’m super picky about sports bras. Another plus of VS is they are everywhere. I don’t have tons of time to shop for bras, I use to live in a small town and believe me our VS was very welcome. I have a VS bra for over ten years and it’s still a good bra, I think thier lace bras are better fitting and last longer, too bad you can see them through shirts. I think VS is a lot better quality than many other bras. That being said, I agree these bra photos look uncomfortable and I dont like how all of thier models are super skinny teenagers. I don’t dislike skinny people but I do dislike the fashion industry’s obsession with them. I think people should look healthy, people that look like they’re on drugs and emaciated do not make me want to buy clothes. Now that I live on the big city lol I might try shopping at nordstroms. I actually only but shoes from there online because I’m a 7.5 Wide shoes size and they have such a large selection of wide shoes and it makes me so happy they carry them. I’ve noticed they had nice bras too.
We don’t have VS where I live but I’ve had similar experiences at other chains. Finally I found a fabulous boutique 15 minutes away with great sizes and fittings. Plus if you bring in a gently used bra to be donated they will give you 10% off your new one. And free repairs!
Kristin. Yach says
Thanks for writing this article. I found it this article when I was doing a web search of my breasts falling over the top of a NEW VS racerback bra I just purchased. I knew that shouldn’t be how it fit, because it looks terrible under the clothes obviously. I went with the size I was sized at last time I was at a VS. That being said I live in a very small town with no nordstroms, macys etc and none within an hours drive. Can you point me to the correct way to size because all the websites I find get me to this same size that I often spillover. Please help!
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Where would be the best place to get fitted? I’ve recently gained some weight and now my bras are too tight for me. I need to get new ones but I know I should get fitted first. Also, what can I expect in a fitting? I’ve really only gone to VS before, so I don’t really know what a good fitting includes.
Thanks for commenting! Nordstrom is definitely my favorite, they are very professional and you will leave feeling like a new woman. However, if you don’t have a Nordstrom nearby, Dillards, Macys also are a great option. If you are interested in doing a Skype consultation I also offer those. You can find the information to contact me under the bra guide and consults tab on our homepage. Good Luck!
Woman are speaking out about positive body image in response to the #bellybuttonchallenge (saying only skinny girls can wrap their arms around a small waist to touch their navel which is impossible for just about anyone) with #boobsoverbellybuttons (which promotes positive body image of women of all sizes [featuring many voluptuous or large breasted women] and pro breast health) but there’s still something that is not being touched on about positive body image for small breasted women.
Rarely do I fit into a 34A. 34AA’s are too narrow on me and 36AA’s are almost impossible to find, too expensive or only offered in a push up bra. I have resorted to buying girls bras as a last resort. I feel awkward scoping out bras in the girls isles. I feel embarrassed if I buy online and return in the store. While some of the girls’ option can be fun, rarely are they sexy. While the girls’ bras are often cheaper most are of poor quality. As a 31 yr old I have come to terms with my body and I am happy with what I have now. Growing up, feeling inadequate, it was a challenge to feel happy with myself. It’s still frustrating going out bra shopping and rarely finding something that fits in a lightly lined underwire form.
Two companies I have felt frustrated with recently on this topic are H&M and Victoria’s Secret. While looking over the bras at H&M I realized that anything offered in an A cup (lightly lined underwire) came with added padding. Anything above an A cup in the same exact bra had no added padding. This is a terrible message this company is sending to women of all ages and it’s an emotional challenge for smaller breasted women young and old. I could only imagine discovering this as a teenager and feeling mortified. Now I just feel frustration and disappointment.
After talking to my Mom, about the challenges we have both endured as smaller breasted woman, she suggested that I look into Victoria’s Secret claiming they should have bras in 36AA. I did a search on their website and all I could find was one line of bras claiming to add “two cup sizes”. NO! I’m not trying to fool the world into thinking I have larger breasts then what is physically there. I simply want a bra that fits. This is outrageous that such a large lingerie company would only provide this one option, again making women feel inadequate like we need to make our breasts larger.
This is another body image struggle that woman have to constantly mentally battle to keep telling themselves that they are beautiful and NOT inadequate. While the media is challenging positive body image daily we need to keep in mind all of the struggles that all women may be going through. I am not sure how to make these companies aware of their actions or how to go about making changes but I will start with writing my opinion on this topic and try to raise awareness.
Thank you so much for your comment. I’m so glad to hear there’s other women out there that feel passionate about stopping body shaming and encouraging women to love themselves!
Just stumbled upon this and wanted to say that this was really informative and helpful! I always pass by VS and see the displays and images of their models. I remember asking my mother why she never purchases bras from VS and she tells me that the material is cheap & for what it’s priced at, it’s not worth it. After reading your article/post, I realized how an actual bra is supposed to fit (I thought this whole time boobs were supposed to come out alittle from the top of the bra). I have a question to ask you though, Courtney-why does it seem like it’s hard to find bras in a wide range of cup sizes at a reasonable price?? I found this Wacoal 32DDD bra that fit me, but it was $60!! I’ve been to Tj Maxx, Ross, and Marshalls, but it’s rare to find a 32DDD bra :'(
On a side note-I feel like people have different opinions on VS and other bra brands because it’s about themselves and their boobs. What works for someone, might not work for someone else because everyone is different/unique :’)
I don’t know the exact reason why DDD+ bras are harder to find and more expensive is because the majority of brick and mortar stores carry what the industry calls “average” sizes A-DD cup sizes because it’s more economical. Bra companies can’t have every single size available because it would be really expensive to do so. So most bra companies that aren’t the highest quality do the average cup sizes to save and make more money. Pretty lame, huh? So that’s why bra companies that carry larger cup sizes charge more because they’re higher quality and have a lot more thought and design put into them.
I am a 32DDD. I avoided VS because I didn’t think they would have anything that would fit well. I went in on a whim and I like the body full coverage and the body perfect shape for cleavage. It doesn’t hurt to try it on and see if it works for you.
Jamie, I’m so glad you found a bra that fits at VS!
As a certified bra specialist that used to work at VS I can understand some of your woes with the store. The photos of the models are over-sexualized which is also why the bras don’t fit properly. Generally a certified bra specialist who is *actually* certified should be working the fitting room. The sad thing is that sometimes (especially during semi-annual sale and Christmas) it is just SO busy in there so new girls get thrown into jobs they aren’t qualified to do. On that note I would NEVER put a customer in a bra that is ill-fitting like portrayed in some of the photos AND when we came across women who needed a size we didn’t carry (generally plus-sized women OR women like me who wear a 32H) we always referred them to the nearest specialty store who did carry their size.
Some VS are terrible with customer service and most things bra-related. My VS was wonderful and we held ourselves to a very high standard. This, on top of population, was probably why we were a over 1million dollar per year store. Other stores in less populated areas don’t have as large of staff, etc., like where I currently live and they only gross about 100K per year. Huge difference and sadly it also makes differences in the types of women we hire/take time to train properly.
Years ago when I would buy my bras at VS, the fitter would measure the fullest part of my bust and overbust – never at the underbust. They consistently put me in a 34C.
Now I get high-quality bras at specialty stores, and I’m wearing my correct size of 30DD-28F, depending on the brand.
I think one of the reasons women tend to wear the wrong bra size has more to do with VS advertisement. Skimpier bras on models photograph better than those in bras that provide fuller coverage and better support. As a result, we end up aiming for ill-fitting bras. I’m glad we’re moving away from that more and more with the help of body-image awareness and breast health. Perhaps VS should follow suit
1. Why do VS catalogues show women wearing ill-fitting bras? VS isn’t clueless but actually quite shrewd–because the target readers of their catalogues are MEN. (Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against men, and have been married to the same one for 44 years). Men have been conditioned to think cleavage is sexy–it gives the illusion of fuller breasts, and they think they are doing the women in their lives a favor by giving them lingerie they believe makes them look and feel more attractive. And we’ve been conditioned to dress for our men (or lovers of either gender), not ourselves. Besides, VS bras are really meant to be worn without clothing over them, and for only as long as it takes to remove (or have said significant other) remove them. We women know better. If we find ourselves in VS shopping for bras, it’s not because we saw them in a catalog! And to be fair, I have always had VS saleswomen be honest and admit that they just don’t carry bras in my size. Not so with many high-end dept. store, even some Nordstrom, fitters (present company excepted) in Chicago and DC. That’s how I ended up in Wacoal 42DDDs, with underwires that broke through the fabric, instead of the 38I (US) or G (UK) I really am.
2. Sadly, you will find “Made in China” on most bras these days–no matter where sold or how costly. Yup–even Panache, Fantasie, Prima Donna, etc. Best case scenario? Sri Lanka, Thailand or Vietnam. Labor is simply cheaper there. (The only underwear I’ve found made in a first-world country? In Seville, panties actually made in Spain). Unless you are all about making a political statement, the (slow) boat has sailed on this one. No successful company is so altruistic as to financially shoot itself in the corporate foot.
3. In the U.S. it may still be difficult-to-impossible to find bras in U.S. H, (even G) or larger cups. even in a fine dept. store such as Nordstrom. Best I’ve been able to do there was to wait for a special order (necessitating I make a return visit) or order from nordstrom.com (and risk an improper fit and the necessity of repacking and sending it back). I wish such quality brands as Wacoal, Natori, or decent mass-market brands such as Warners’ or Olga made large enough cups. (Not even LeMystere cups are large enough for me, and I can shop for many of my clothes in the regular, not plus-size, dept.). If your closest Nordstrom can’t fit you, I suggest finding a branch of Intimacy (or equivalent specialty lingerie boutique catering to a wide range of sizes) and scheduling a fitting. You may find yourself able to afford (or fit into) only one or two bras in the shop, but you can always go online (nordstrom.com, Amazon, Bare Necessities, figleaves.com, HerRoom, etc.) and order it in additional (NOT white) colors at a lower price.
Hey Sandy! Thank you so much for your passionate and lengthy comment! I love it! Yes, you made very great points. Thanks so much for taking the time to comment and visit our blog!
THis corresponds to my experiences there. I am a 36h. I only go there to buy underwear. But every damn time their “fitters” tell me they can help me. SO last time i let them. They told me i was a 40dd, and i even pointed out the band was too big (obviously) hers suggestion, tighten the straps. I have never been back in a store.
I’m so sorry to hear this!
I wear a 32DDD. I went to Macy’s, Nordstrom, and several other places and IF they have a bra in my size they are minimizers or they flatten me out. VS is the only place I found with a comfortable bra that fits well. Not every style works. The demi bras are not the best for my size, but the body full coverage and the shaper are amazing!!
Hi! I just want to thank you for this article. I read it a couple of days ago when the underwire of my VS bra broke and I did a search for alternate bras, this article was the 2nd link down. That night I read all your bra posts and today I went to my local Nordstroms were I was fitted and walked away with 2 Natori bras!! I have all along worn the wrong size (I’m in my early 40s) and today I could not believe the difference I felt wearing a GOOD fitting bra!! Thank you so much for taking the time writing all of your thorough posts that taught me a few things!
This makes me so happy to hear! Thank you for taking the time to write about your experience. It’s comments like these that make my job was awesome!
A lot of my bras I purchased at VS and they’re all comfortable for me but an employee once offered to measure me and her measurements were SO off. I know I’m a 34 A but she insisted I was a 32 D/DD. and so I tried on a size 32 D bra and it was so ridiculous. I even hinted that she was doing it incorrectly when she measured me over my clothes and not bare buutt whatever, they dont know how to do measurements.
Sadly, I’ve had the same experience. I recommend going to Nordstrom, I feel like they have the best fitting program.
I went to VS for the first time ever this month. The girl asked me what size I was wearing…I told her 40C for years. She measured me and brought me a 38C, because they didn’t have 40 in the store, only online…first strike! It was too small. I specifically wanted a sexy, push up padded bra, which I ended up in a 40DD. I’ve never owned a D in my life, nevermind a DD! I thought she was crazy, but it actually fit good, but I’m pretty sure it’s only because of this style of bra, because a regular bra in D is too big of a cup. What I didn’t like is she was pushing me on buying the 38DD with a hook extender. Why on earth would I do that, when it was itchy, scratchy and very uncomfortable…poor customer service…strike 2! I ended up ordering it online in 40DD. I thought the $52 price tag was a bit much too. When it arrived, it fit and looked sexy…but there is one major problem with this bra that I absolutely hate. The bra actually makes noise when I move my arms or move around…strike 3! Why. Never had a bra do that before. The sound comes from my sides closest to my underarms, and it’s from the underwires moving around, which tells me they are not make properly or long enough to fit snug from end to end, there is room for them to move around, hence the noise. It’s embarrassing and too noisy, so I will live with this, but will never buy from them again.
I have pretty small boobies, like 28C or something. Of course, I can never wear this because almost no one I know carries this size. I cannot even get anything up to 32 band size because it is so uncommon I guess. (at least where I live) Victoria Secret flat out told me my bra size was invalid. I’m not flat chested by any means, my rib cage is just extremely tiny, and my boobs are quite proportionate to that. So basically Victoria Secret isn’t only tough for girls with larger boobies, but also for girls with tiny rib cages. Which is silly because they target teenage girls as well, tiny women who obviously have tiny rib cages, but they don’t go tiny enough.
ok but all of the VS pictures are photoshopped
Using your sizing guide I measured myself at 32DD. After trying on several bras, I decided I needed to keep the band size the same but go up one cup size. I then went to VS and they wanted to measure me before I tried anything on. They also measured me at 32DD, but they still didn’t fit properly and I wear a 32DDD. I go to VS because that’s the only place I know of near me that sells that size. I don’t want to buy online because I know all the styles fit a bit differently and I want to try it on before I purchase.
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